The Space Between Selves
A dark feminist blog exploring goddess mythology, modern womanhood, and female power through poetry, essays, and literary analysis. Along with some reviews of books I love.
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Life Lessons from Turtles: Embracing the Journey Over the Destination
Some of life's greatest lessons don't come from the loudest voices. They come from quiet creatures who never seem in a hurry. Turtles remind me that healing, growth, and joy aren't found in rushing toward the next destination, but in embracing each gentle step of the journey. Slow and steady isn't falling behind. It's choosing to truly live.
What It Means to Be a Dark Whimsy Woman
Dark whimsy is more than an aesthetic. It is a way of seeing the world. It is finding beauty in forgotten places, strength in vulnerability, and wonder in the shadows we have been taught to fear. This is an essay about embracing every part of yourself and discovering that sometimes the path through the darkest forest is the one that finally leads you home.
The Woman Beneath the Ashes: A Manifesto for Being Seen
Some women spend their lives trying to become smaller so they can fit comfortably into the expectations of others. This is not that story.
The Woman Beneath the Ashes is a reflection on transformation, belonging, and the courage it takes to be fully seen. It is for every woman who has survived, reinvented herself, and is finally ready to stop apologising for her depth, her darkness, and her light.
The Difficulty of Truly Being Seen
For years I worried about what other people thought of me, often hiding parts of myself in the process. Through the To Be Magnetic Being Seen Challenge, I'm learning that authenticity isn't about being fearless, it's about being honest. This essay explores the vulnerability of being truly seen and the freedom that comes from finally accepting yourself.
Belonging
There is a quiet kind of loneliness in always being the new person.
The one who arrives after the laughter has already settled into rhythm.
The one who listens first, speaks carefully, and wonders where their voice might fit.
I don’t just want people around me.
I want my people.
The kind of belonging that doesn’t ask you to shrink or explain yourself.
The kind that feels like being understood without having to translate your heart.
My Life My Way
A personal reflection on choosing an authentic life rather than following expectations. This piece explores independence, self-discovery, creativity, and the courage to shape a life that feels honest and meaningful. It is a quiet manifesto about listening inward, honouring change, and allowing life to unfold on your own terms.