The Space Between Selves
A dark feminist blog exploring goddess mythology, modern womanhood, and female power through poetry, essays, and literary analysis. Along with some reviews of books I love.
What Is It Like to Be Adopted? An Honest Story of Identity, Belonging, and Fear
An honest look at what it feels like to be adopted—exploring identity, belonging, trust, and the lasting fear of abandonment and rejection.
The Reality of Being a Writer: Creativity, Self-Doubt, and Finding Your Voice
A deeply honest reflection on the realities of being a writer, exploring the tension between creativity and self-doubt. From writer’s block and comparison to the vulnerability of sharing your work, this post offers insight into the process of finding your voice—especially through a love of dark romance and fantasy storytelling.
Daughter of the Turning Wheel
A luminous, myth-inspired poem honouring Arianrhod, this piece explores cycles, sovereignty, and the quiet power of becoming. Through imagery of stars, tides, and the turning silver wheel, it reflects on transformation, self-possession, and the truth that feeling lost is often the beginning of returning to yourself.
A Haunting Dark Academia Fantasy Review | Slow Burn, Magic & Memory
A haunting dark academia review exploring slow burn romance, forbidden tension, and a heroine who can speak to the dead. With themes of memory, power, and buried secrets, this story blends magic and mystery into an immersive, atmospheric read that lingers long after the final page.
Walking the Spiritual Path: Shadow Work, Healing, and Finding Your Truth
A reflective exploration of spirituality as a deeply personal journey, this post reminds us there is no single “right” path. From religion to nature, energy work to solitude, it invites readers to embrace curiosity, growth, and self-discovery while creating a spiritual practice that feels true to them.
Born of seafoam
This piece is a lyrical, reverent portrayal of Aphrodite as more than a simple symbol of romance. The poem reframes her as a living force of desire, beauty, and self-worth, expanding her meaning beyond traditional mythology into something intimate and modern.
Rather than focusing on dramatic mythological events, the description of her emergence from the sea becomes a quiet, almost sacred moment. The imagery leans into softness and transformation — the world subtly shifting in her presence, as if beauty itself has memory and responds to her return.
The tone is both sensual and introspective, blending external imagery (waves, flowers, light) with internal emotional landscapes. Aphrodite is presented not just as a goddess people worship, but as an energy people experience — in longing, in joy, in self-love, and in the courage to feel deeply.
At its core, the piece explores the idea that love is not passive or decorative, but powerful and active. Aphrodite becomes a symbol of permission: to desire, to appreciate beauty, and to believe in one’s own worth. The closing lines reinforce this by suggesting she is never gone — she is continually “reborn” in human connection, tenderness, and vulnerability.
It’s less a retelling of myth, and more an invocation — like calling her presence into the modern heart.
Open your mind
There is a quiet kind of power in choosing curiosity over certainty. Not the loud, performative kind that insists on being right, but the softer strength that leans in, listens, and asks, why? It is in that space, between what you know and what you are willing to question, that something begins to shift.
To live open-minded is not to drift without anchors, but to recognise that your beliefs are not cages, they are doorways. And every conversation, every challenge, every moment of discomfort is a hand reaching for the handle, inviting you to step through.
Psycho Academy
Aran’s story doesn’t unfold like a gentle bloom; it claws its way into the light, bloodied, furious, and unrelenting. What makes her so compelling isn’t just her power, but the way she resists it—like someone gripping the edges of herself, terrified of what she might become if she lets go. There’s something achingly human in that contradiction. She is both weapon and wound, both queen and ghost of a girl who once wanted something softer.
The academy strips her down, but not in the way it intends. Instead of breaking her into obedience, it exposes the raw architecture of her pain—each jagged edge catching the light. And in that brutal illumination, something unexpected happens: she doesn’t shatter further. She begins, slowly and stubbornly, to reassemble.
This is where Jasmine Mas excels—she doesn’t romanticise the damage, nor does she rush the healing. Aran’s evolution is not a clean arc but a storm system, circling back, crashing, rising again. And when connection finally threads its way into her life, it doesn’t save her. It meets her in the wreckage and says: stay.
If the Cruel Shifterverse is marching toward war, then Aran feels like its heartbeat—ragged, defiant, and impossible to silence. And if this is only the beginning of her rise, then the realms should be very, very afraid.
The FMC
This essay traces the powerful evolution of the female main character across literature, film, television, and music, revealing her transformation from a passive figure shaped by male narratives into a complex, autonomous force at the center of storytelling. It explores how early representations confined women to symbolic roles, gradually giving way to more nuanced portrayals through the influence of feminist thinkers and writers.
Moving through key cultural shifts, the essay highlights how modern female protagonists now embody agency, desire, moral ambiguity, and power. From classic literary heroines to contemporary figures in romantasy, television, and music, the female main character is shown to have expanded beyond traditional boundaries, no longer defined by likability or limitation.
Ultimately, the piece argues that today’s female protagonist is not a singular archetype but a multifaceted presence who commands her own narrative, reflecting broader changes in society, feminism, and creative expression.
Reclaiming the Sacred and the Self: Feminism, Desire, and the Return of the Worshipped Woman
She stands at the quiet centre of light—hands cupped around something that is not just power, but creation itself.
This image is a remembering.
A remembering of a time when women were not asked to shrink, soften, or explain their existence. When the feminine was not something to be controlled, but something revered. She is not reaching for power—she is holding it, steady and luminous, as though it has always belonged to her.
There is softness here, yes. Gold-threaded, radiant, alive. But it is not fragile. It is the kind of softness that survives centuries. The kind that rebuilds itself again and again, no matter how many times it has been silenced.
She does not ask to be seen.
She does not ask to be chosen.
She is the axis around which everything turns.
This piece sits somewhere between mythology and modernity—where ancient goddess energy meets the present moment. It speaks to the quiet shift happening now, where women are reclaiming not only their voices, but their desire, their bodies, their presence at the centre of their own stories.
Not the muse.
Not the object.
Not the afterthought.
The origin.
Simone De Beauvoir
A book that didn’t just ask questions about women’s lives, but rewrote the grammar of how those questions could even be asked.
In this post, I explore The Second Sex by Simone de Beauvoir through the lens of feminist theory—tracing how her idea that “one is not born, but becomes, a woman” continues to echo through thinkers like Judith Butler, Luce Irigaray, and bell hooks.
This is not just a review. It’s a conversation across time.
From existentialism to gender performativity, from myth to material conditions, this post unpacks how femininity has been constructed, constrained, and contested—and why Beauvoir’s work still matters in a world that is very much still negotiating what it means to become.
If you’re drawn to feminist philosophy, literary theory, or the quiet dismantling of ideas you were taught to accept, this piece invites you to read a little deeper—and question a little more.
Keeper of the Quiet Flame
There is a kind of strength that doesn’t roar.
It doesn’t demand attention or burn everything in its path.
It is quieter than that.
It lives in the small moments…
in choosing to begin again,
in tending to yourself when no one is watching,
in holding onto hope even when it feels fragile.
Brigid reminds me that not all fire is meant to destroy.
Some fire is meant to warm.
To heal.
To create.
So if you feel like you’re barely holding it together right now…
that doesn’t mean you’re failing.
It might just mean you’re tending a quiet flame. 🔥🌿✨
Belonging
There is a quiet kind of loneliness in always being the new person.
The one who arrives after the laughter has already settled into rhythm.
The one who listens first, speaks carefully, and wonders where their voice might fit.
I don’t just want people around me.
I want my people.
The kind of belonging that doesn’t ask you to shrink or explain yourself.
The kind that feels like being understood without having to translate your heart.
When Readers Read Too Much: ACOTAR, Fourth Wing, and the Rise of the Intentional Fallacy
Reading has started to feel less like falling into a story… and more like trying to solve one.
Every sentence is picked apart. Every moment examined for hidden meaning, future twists, or secret intention. We are no longer just readers, we are investigators.
But not everything is a clue.
Sometimes a forest is just a forest.
Sometimes a love story is just a love story.
Sometimes a line is simply meant to be felt, not decoded.
Stories are not machines built to be solved.
They are living things, shaped by emotion, instinct, and experience.
And maybe we are allowed to do both…
to analyse, and to simply enjoy.
Because we did not fall in love with books to study them.
We fell in love with them because, for a little while, they let us live another life.
Speak Your Truth
For a long time, I softened my voice to keep the peace. But silence has a cost. This post explores the importance of finding your voice, speaking your truth, and having the courage to stand up for what is right. Sometimes our voice is not only for ourselves, but for those who cannot safely speak for themselves.